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Wild Lion*esses Pride from Jay's avatar

Louise, I love how clearly you unfold what this song truly reveals. I remember so well — in 1993, the year this was written, Germany still had its §175 criminalizing homosexuality (between men). I always sensed they simply could not imagine women having sex without a man present, so we were not even considered in that law. It was revoked only in 1994, and men persecuted under it now receive reparation.

On paper, Germany looks liberal today — strong anti-discrimination laws. Yet this has not built a society free from homophobia, transphobia, xenophobia, or any of the -isms. In fact, from my experience, these last 5–10 years have seen it worsen. As large companies began implementing "forced" Diversity programs to balance a deeply tilted playing field, resentment grew. White, male, Christian privilege felt threatened — and the backlash slid underground.

Now, discrimination lives in subtler forms. On the surface: all correct. Yet give it one round of drinks, and masks slip. The contempt many still hold toward people like me — non-binary, queer, lesbian — becomes unmistakable.

Laws alone do not reshape the generations raised inside open -phobias and -isms. I witness this daily: beneath the polished surface, barely a shift. Almost not one iota.

So thank you again for your reading of this song — it matters. We name it, we keep it visible.

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Diana van Eyk's avatar

Too bad there's so much homophobia.

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